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You may have noticed I have not been posting much these days. I have been preoccupied by doctor visits, tests, and more doctor visits. Last week I had surgery to remove several lumps from my right breast. They were biopsied, and today I learned that I have breast cancer.

"What? Me? This kind of thing doesn’t happen to me. I eat all organic food. I use non-toxic home and garden products. I don’t smoke or drink. I’m careful about what I furnish and paint my house with. I should be healthy. How could this happen?"

Just over a year ago I detected a lump in my breast. I called the doctor who agreed to see me promptly. He also felt the lump and scheduled me for a mammogram. It was the most excruciating pain I have ever experienced. They took my suspicious little lump and put it in a vice and squeezed it…for good measure. So they think. The doctor didn’t even bother to contact me with the results. When I called him he said that the radiologist said it was nothing.

Then about four weeks ago I noticed that I had at least five lumps where previously there was one. I scheduled an appointment with my new doctor; the other one had graduated and left the practice. She confirmed the presence of the lumps. I told her that I would not ever have another mammogram. I insisted on an ultrasound. She scheduled it. When she didn’t get back to me with any results I left a message for her to call. Then I left messages for the director of the clinic and one of her peers as well. Finally she called. She told me over the phone that I needed to see a surgeon for a biopsy.

You always hear that time is so critical where cancer is concerned; that early detection is important. Well I detected my cancer early. It took the medical "professionals" over a year to agree with me. I agonize over the unnecessary damage that was done over that period of time; the progression of the disease; the radical solution that will now have to be carried out.

There was a report on the news tonight about a national study whereby mammograms were sent out for readings by radiologists across the country. It was discovered that the accuracy rate for being able to identify cancer ranges from 27-100%, depending on how experienced the radiologist is that’s reading the mammogram. So early detection is one thing, but if the person who reads your mammogram, the person who holds your life in their hands, is not experienced with breast imaging, then early detection is of no value whatsoever. Make sure that the radiologist has the experience of reading breast images at least 20% of the time. And get a second opinion.

I would be grateful if anyone has anything to share with me on the subject of breast cancer, or knows anyone who does. I am quite lost at the moment and in need of hearing from those who’ve have been through this. Thank you ever so kindly.

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66 responses to “The Mammogram That Lied”

  1. tongue in cheek Avatar

    Dear Sylvie,
    First I am so sorry to hear your shocking news. Cancer is like being branded with a C. It hurts, goes deep and changes who you are.
    I had ovarian cancer 14 years ago. I caught it early as well. Like you I didn’t understand why me, I had a healthy lifestyle too… nevertheless it happened and it was difficult to accept.
    You are on the right track, because you LISTENED to your body, you followed up, you took care of yourself…when everyone around you didn’t. Continue that path, listening to what your body says, and believing your inner message.
    When you have cancer there are many messages, doctors advice, friends ideas, and news that will come at you each with the newest and best way to deal with your problem. You must follow what YOU believe to be true and healing.
    Fighting cancer means keeping your balance and your spirit in a safe, gentle loving place. Throw the rest far from you. Focus on what is good, trust your instict, do what you beleive will heal you.
    Having cancer is like a rollercoaster ride, it takes you on a trip that is full of ups, downs, hills, fast turns and often is one hell of a ride. Hold on!
    One thing I can say after experiencing cancer is that my life has never been the same, it has been better, life is richer, fuller…I see the wonder that life is and do not take it for granted. You are a gift and the journey ahead though not easy will be beautiful.
    My prayers are with you and my heart is open to listening if you need to talk.
    xx Corey

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  2. jessica Avatar

    hello sylvie,
    i heard about the negative accuracy of the readings as well. sorry to hear about all this with you. once again, the medics messed up and it is too often.
    blessings to you.

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  3. Jane Avatar

    Hi Sylvie,
    I’m so sorry to hear of your news and wish I could help in some way. I can hold you in my prayers, which I will gladly, and I send you so many positive and peaceful thoughts.
    You may find comfort contacting Amy at four sisters in a cottage. She is currently fighting breast cancer.
    If I can do anything else please let me know and I’ll keep checking in for news.
    You are not alone.
    With love,
    Jane (posy) xxxxx

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  4. Gisela Avatar

    My dear Sylvie, I’m so sorry to hear this sad news… and sorry to know that the medical technicians didn’t follow your case properly. Sadly, that seems to happen often… You must find help with a doctor you trust and find help also with people that experienced the same. I wish I could help more…

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  5. Dionna Avatar
    Dionna

    Sylvie-
    I’m so sorry to hear about this news from you, but agree with the first poster that you are such a positive spirit who is intuitive about your health, and you have been smart to seek more than one opinion and advice from others, etc.
    I don’t have a personal experience to share, but will send love and prayers your way…
    xoxox
    Dionna (idahostudios)
    p.s. Have you heard of ESSIAC tea? I’ve heard some positive things about its cancer-fighting strength, maybe someone here will have an opinion on it.

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  6. Nicole Avatar

    I am so sorry to hear your news. I will hold you in my heart and hope for your speedy recovery. You have been doing everything you could to prevent this. Keep listening to your body, it is more important than ever now. I hope that you will find a doctor who will take your concerns seriously and treat you with more respect. Thank you for sharing your story.

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  7. Di Overton Avatar

    Hi Sylvie
    I am so sorry to hear your news but I do know quite a few people who have been where you are at the moment. They were positive souls just like you and came through the other end as stronger people.
    Just know I am thinking of you and that being positive is the best medicine ever.
    Much Love
    Di

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  8. thatbeegirl Avatar
    thatbeegirl

    hi sylvie,
    what a heart-wrenching entry, and i’m sorry to hear the news of your cancer. my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer about a month ago and will have surgery this upcoming monday to remove the tumor. having been with her at her consult, i am sure you are going through very similar thoughts and feelings, and i wish you all the best with your treatment and speedy recovery.
    all my best,

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  9. Anna Spiro Avatar

    Oh, Sylvie – what horrible news this is! I am so very sorry to hear this! I am thinking of you! I wish I could do something but I really don’t know anything about it which is so bad I know. I will be checking back on you regularly! Please keep me up-to-date as to your progress!!XOAnna

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  10. teresa (maggiegracecreates) Avatar

    Sylvie – I echo the information from Corey. The cancerous lump that was removed from my breast 11 years ago never showed up on my mammogram. The first place I saw it was the chest xray I had to be sure I was okay for surgery.
    From your post I can tell that your health is important to you. Remember, cancer has no selection criteria, it was nothing that you did to gain this title of Cancer survivor. I will tell you that this is an elite club of strong, capable, sexy, sure, and inspiring people. Continue to listen to what your body is telling you, be ready to fight, argue, defend that message to your medical care team. Pull those people around you who build you up – encourage you. Leave all those behind who are negative or tear you down.
    Call on us out here in blogland – vent here – bitch here – love here – we will all be here.
    Best wishes and prayers as you heal.

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  11. Claudia Avatar

    Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear these news, and that you have to go through this!!
    I hope, from the bottom of my heart, that treatment will not be too painful, and that you recover fully! A big big tight sincere hug to you and your family!

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  12. style court Avatar

    Sylvie, I’m truly so sad to hear this news. Please know you are in my thoughts.
    xo
    Courtney

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  13. Carrie S. Avatar

    Oh, Sylvie. Truly, I always believe we have to be our own advocates on all levels. I’m so sorry to hear you have to go through this and you are in my thoughts and prayers. You are young and you are strong – you will get through this…XO

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  14. chez shoes Avatar

    Oh Sylvie, I am so sorry to hear this. No advice to offer, really, but I can share your frustration in knowing that something was wrong and being told by a “professional” that it was nothing – I’ve been there with my own health issues. That being said, my advice is to educate yourself as much as possible, which I’m sure you’re doing. Research everything, every step of the way, because you just might learn something that your docs don’t know yet.
    Sending hugs and good thoughts your way!

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  15. Cristina Avatar

    Hi Sylvie,
    I am so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I don’t have any advice, but just wanted to offer support. You might like to visit WhyMommy’s blog. She has been battling breast cancer and chronicling her struggle on her blog. Here is the link: http://toddlerplanet.wordpress.com/

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  16. Veronica TM Avatar

    oh, dear sylvie! i am very sorry. i can imagine the frustration, the fear, the confusion. during my first pregnancy i knew i had lost the baby but a doctor diagnosed an ectopic pregnancy and then nobody will get back to me {it is a very dangerous thing for the baby and mom’s life and time sensitive too}. i felt alone and at the same time i felt that they somewhat had my life in their hands and didn’t care. that is why my advice is that you try to find a doctor you trust and that cares. i am sending you love and healing energy.

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  17. abby Avatar

    keeping you in my thoughts….hoping for you and your well being…
    wish i could offer more advice, just don’t know what to say

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  18. Marcie Avatar
    Marcie

    I’ve never commented before…I just want you to know I wish the best for you.

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  19. Christine Avatar

    Thanks for sharing this with everyone in cyberspace…your story will definitely help people facing the same situation. A similar thing happened to my grandfather–whose prostate cancer was ignored, even though he kept telling the doctor something was wrong. My thoughts are with you!

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  20. Katherine A. Avatar

    Sylvie, you are in my prayers. I really hope you get some positive feelings coming your way as soon as possible. Someone close to my family went through breast cancer, so I will try to find her contact information for you.
    Love to you and your family,
    Katherine

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  21. Aimee Avatar

    I don’t have advice for cancer, but I do know how frustrating it is to deal with doctors sometimes. It took them 8 years of hard fighting on my part for them to diagnose my endometriosis, and another 10 years to get the diagnosis right on my epstien bar.
    Keep your spirits up, and listen to your body. We know much more about ourselves and what our bodies are doing than we think. Don’t be afraid to fight with doctors when it comes to fighting for your health. You learned this lesson already, and I am so sorry that you had to go through it like this.
    Best wishes, and please keep us updated on how things are going and if there is anything that we can help you with.

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  22. lindsey Avatar

    sylvie, my thoughts, sympathy, empathy, and all the good things i can beam your way, are on their way. will you be considering a hybrid treatment of traditional and alternative medicine?

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  23. moodboard Avatar

    Oh Sylvie, this is not what I expected to see today. As you and the others have said, knowing is half the battle, and we are ready to fight with you. Let me know if there is anything you want or need.

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  24. estea Avatar

    o my dear.
    may we all be so brave as to fight the medicals for what our body is telling us is truth.
    i am so very sorry you are facing this. my family is so full of this very thing that sometimes i feel like a ticking time bomb, but i can understand living the healthy life and being blindsided. my sister was a marathoner, a health nut – she was diagnosed and lumps and lymph nodes were removed and that was a week before my wedding 12 years ago. she is fit and fantastic now and we never for one moment take one moment with her for granted.
    my prayers to you and your boy. your zest for life and style have cheered me many times, though i’ve never bothered to comment. now i send thoughts for bravery, wisdom, endurance, courage across the miles and hope for the absolute best outcome.
    sincerely and hopefully,
    estéa

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  25. Victoria Avatar

    ah, sylvia, I was so sorry to read your news. and angry, too. i can’t imagine your frustration. but i know you will be okay. my friend eszter is a breast cancer survivor and started this wonderful group to help you through this time. i’ve asked eszter to get in touch with you and gave her this link. be strong – you are so loved.
    xoxo victoria
    http://www.preparetolive.org/html/about/founders.html

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  26. Scott Waterman Avatar

    Dear Sylvie,
    I did notice your lack of updates but was sure you were busy with work and such and certainly not inept medical professionals (?) and painful procedures. I looked at the Prepare to Live link which looks very helpful and esthetically pleasing. I feel certain you’ll get some great advice and info through your cyberspace connections.
    If you can think of anything, anything I can do just name it. I haven’t even met you but know you to be a fabulous wonderful person and we simply can’t have enough of you around.
    XO Scott

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  27. tongue in cheek Avatar

    ps
    There is this fantastic site. About having cancer. It resounds everything I believe… It made me smile and cry all at once.
    I hope it gives you courage…
    http://www.crazysexycancer.com/

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  28. Nina Avatar

    Hi Sylvie,
    I’m so sorry to hear this. So stupid that you walked around with this so long and asked for help but no doctor took it seriously. I wish you all the strength and luck that you need, and a lot of support from family and friends. Take care,
    Nina
    p.s. I hope I didn’t write anything strange or stupid. When it comes to serious matters, I get insecure about my english and wonder if I don’t write something weird or incomprehensible, or use the wrong words. Hope I didn’t…

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  29. decor8holly Avatar

    Oh no! I found you via a magazine I read last year, with your beautiful sofa, and have been reading your blog ever since you started it. Yesterday, I made you the blog of the week, and today when I clicked here to read your new entry I was floored, sad, shocked. I don’t even “know” you and I feel very emotional about this post and my heart goes out to you – I really am deeply sorry that you have to go through this. But I have complete faith that you will emerge healthy and happy with many years of joy and good blessings ahead. But for now, I’m sure things will be a difficult journey. But your friends are here for you and I hope you will keep reaching out via your blog so we can see how you’re doing.
    You are a fighter, you will beat this!
    Love,
    Holly

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  30. Cecilia Avatar

    I personally know 2 people who have cured themselves of breast cancer by switching to a raw food diet.
    Here are some suggestions for starting point websites you can visit-
    http://www.crazysexycancer.com
    http://www.rawveganradio.com
    http://www.rawfamily.com
    http://www.shazzie.com
    Lots of love and strength,
    Cecilia

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  31. Nathalie Avatar

    Hi Sylvie,
    I found your blog for the first time today via decor8.
    I am really sorry about what you are going through, my mum had 2 breast cancers, the first one was detected early but the second not, similar to your experience, she was positive she had it but had to convince the doctor about until the tests proved it.
    So i can understand the anger and frustration and disappointment you felt.
    My mum is a very emotional person and when i heard the news the first time i was afraid she wouldn’t handle it very well, i was afraid of the consequences it would have on her not only on her body but on her emotions.
    Instead she surprised us all, she fought breast cancer for a couple of years with so much strength, i really admire her for this. She told me that every experience brings something even the negative ones, and told me after fighting cancer away she has become a much stronger person, she found the strength she didn’t even know she had.
    You too will fight and you too will become an amazingly strong woman,
    Take Care,
    Nathalie

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  32. Selena Avatar

    I was so sadden to read your post today Sylvie. My only experience with this is finding a lump and going to have an ultrasound to have it checked out. (it was hormonal) I was treated terribly from the receptionist to the person that did the ultrasound. If possible, find a caring cancer center to look after you. My mother who has recently fought colon cancer went to an amazing cancer center in Seattle. They mix oncology with alternative medicine. She first went to a conventional cancer center where she was just a number. I hope you are able to find a place that fits into your natural style of living and where they treat you as you are, an individual. My mother found this book extremely helpful: Beating Cancer with Nutrition by Patrick Quillin. I’ll keep you in my thoughts Sylvie.

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  33. jennifer ramos Avatar

    Sylvie,
    I HOPE YOU DONT MIND me being very Candid.
    This is such an odd occurence to come across your blog and read about this. You see, last night my breasts felt quite tender to the touch, but my menstrual cycle has been over since the 5th of the month so its a bit odd. Not impossible but unusual that i get swollen and tender after my cycle. Or is this normal?? However, i thought i felt a small bump , but its hard to tell, you see i have breast implants and have had them for a little over 9 years now. So its tough. I’ve only been in once for a mammogram, since they say don’t bother wanting to give you one until after you are 35. Well I’m 34….and nothing was detected, but after reading your post i feel a bit uncomfortable and want to know if my tests were read accurately. How would we REALLY KNOW??
    So , i think i will go in for an exam tomorrow or monday and see what the doc says. On my own its very hard to tell if its actually a bump or just a ridge of some sort from the implant that i’m feeling and it feels odd due to tenderness.
    Being a woman can be a struggle at times.
    I REALLY wish you the best.
    Jen
    Jen Ramos

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  34. Barb McMahon Avatar

    Sylvie – wishing you peace and strength and comfort.

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  35. Carolina Eclectic Avatar

    Hi Sylvie
    I’ve been reading your blog for a few months now, so I kind of feel like I know you. I am stunned to hear your news. I wanted to let you know that I will keep you in my prayers, and I really do mean that. I have faith that you will be able to get throught this, especially since its sounds like you are such a healthy person otherwise.
    I am wishing the best for you and your family.

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  36. Moira Avatar

    Hello Sylvie,
    I’m sorry that I don’t have any helpful suggestions for you, but I did want to delurk to tell you that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Hugs from all of us in D.C….

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  37. Sue Avatar
    Sue

    Sylvie, Today I discovered your blog & was sad to read your entry. I have a friend in Florida who has a wealth of information on breast cancer & has written 2 books about her experiences. I want to give you here email address in case you’d care to take a look at her website. Her name is Diane. I wish you the best..take care. Sue
    breast-cancer-survivor@verizon.net

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  38. Jane Mahon Avatar
    Jane Mahon

    Sylvie,
    My sister forwarded me the link to your site as she said when she read your story it made her cry. All the more so because approx 16 months ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Sept 13th, 2006 to be exact, I will never ever forget it.
    Anyway, I live in Ireland where there has been an awful lot of bad press about recent misdiagnosis of many women here due to incorrect reading of mammomgrams. This is little comfort to you I know but it just goes to show that it happens everywhere and standards need to be improved. I was lucky, my doctor was amazing and got me seen by a specialist within 24 hours and he then had me get tests done that are known as triple diagnostic tests. That implies that all three test results have to agree before proceeding, so my mammogram, fine needle biopsy and physical exam all had to concur, which unfortunately they did! I had the lump removed, and all the lymph nodes under my left arm also. This turned out not to be enough as the tests showed insufficient clearance around the site where the lump had been. I had a second third and fourth operation to ensure it was all gone! I ended up having a mastectomy around a year ago and then had chemo and then radiation treatment. I am 36 now and was 35 at diagnosis. My husband and I were told on day 1 that I would NOT DIE from this! So we decided that I would get through this. And I have. My hair is growing back now and is nice and thick and curly. My little boy is four on New Year’s Eve and you have no idea how much I am looking forward to christmas this year. I had excellent treatment from the team of doctors that I dealt with, for the most part. One or two hitch’s with some who did not know the meaning of bedside manner, but sure that is bound to happen. I had a mammogram two months ago which came back all clear and I am examined by the consultant surgeon or the oncologist every three months to ensure that nothing untoward is developing. I am scheduled to have reconstruction surgery in March and can’t wait. I feel I have so much to share with you but it is too much to go into now. Please please contact me if you would like to know more. Have any questions at all. I would be so glad to share my experiences with you. You can get through this, staying positive is key, or so I am told. I have discovered that apparently I am a very positive person and many friends thought so. I never really knew that about myself. I also have strength I did not know I had and life is really really good now. I am sending positive vibes your way and am here if you need someone.
    Regards
    Jane

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  39. maja Avatar

    sylvie- i only met you a short while ago but you made an impression on me. i know that you’ll tackle this challenge with your style, sense of humor and grace. please let me know if there is anything i can do. i’m a ways way from you, but i’m good for it 🙂 ~maja

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  40. Sheri Avatar

    above is a photo I dedicated to you please click on it to see.
    XooXo
    Sheri

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  41. Sheri Avatar

    May you find strength and love in the light.
    May your fear blow away in the wind.
    May courage find you and hold you so tight.
    (This is the dedication)

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  42. Freefalling Avatar

    Cancer SUCKS!
    Fasten your seatbelt – you are in for a ride!
    It’s a cliche – but it does make you appreciate the little things in life.

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  43. AphroChic Avatar

    Dear Sylvie,
    I am so very sorry. You are a person that gives something beautiful to the world each day. I pray that through the support of family and friends, and your own inner strength, that you will beat this cancer. Take care of you. Although we have never met, I feel like you are a friend. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
    Jeanine/AphroChic

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  44. DawnMarie Avatar
    DawnMarie

    Dear Sylvie,
    I am so very sorry for your diagnosis. Although I do not have expereince with breast cancer outside of family members that have fought and won. I am a cervical cancer survivor. I was diagnosised before the age of thirty. I am now thirty seven and going strong. I too, led a very healthy lifestyle and could not understand why. I also came to the conclusion, why not me? Maybe because I have a wonderful support system, wonderful family and friends, I was in good health otherwise. Maybe someone else would not have the strength to fight, maybe someone else would not have the wonderful family and friends. I believe in positive thinking. After my diagnosis and all treatment options discussed I made the doctors make a note in my chart. No one was to use the word “if” with me. I was always to be presented “when” you beat this, “when” you are given a clean bill of health. I knew my risks, I knew my odds…..now lets move on to the posiitve end result. I was going to beat this. And I did. I am a better person for it. I see the little things in life, I appreciate everything good and bad as a lesson to being alive. I am alive and can take anything the world has to throw at me.
    I wish you a short road to recovery. I wish you the best medical care you can have. Please take care of yourself.

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  45. Irina Avatar

    I am truly truly sorry. Although I don’t have personal experience with cancer I did remember anger and frustration when I faced with radilogist’s lack of due diligence. 4 months ago I found a lump in my breast and the mammogram and ultrasound reports prepared by a radiologist showed 3 lumps in total (with one lump just under 2″ in diameter). I ended up with 3 core biopsies on both breasts. A couple of days after the surgery I was suprised though to get a call from my breast surgeon informing me that he sees one more lump on my mammogram. The lump that was overlooked by a radiologist! I had to get back to the surgery center for the 4-th biopsy. I was lucky, they all happened to be benigh. However, right away it made me start thinking about how many MALIGNANT lumps get overlooked by radiologists on a regular basis!
    While waiting for my biopsy results I hoped for the best but prepared for the worst. I found American Cancer Society’s site to be very helpful: http://www.cancer.org/docroot/home/index.asp
    Sylvie, please try to keep the spirit up! You will beat this cancer! Please DO consider joining your local cancer support group. You will find many amazingly strong women who won the fight with their cancers! You can find one by contacting your local hospitals or breast cancer centers.
    A few months ago I also saw a wonderful documentary on PBS: My Crazy Sexy Cancer. I believe someone has left you the link earlier. Just in case: http://www.myspace.com/crazysexycancer
    I had one of my lymph node surgically removed a couple of days ago. Nervously waiting for biopsy results. As always, hoping for the best and preparing for the worst.
    Best of luck to you, Sylvie! I will leep you in my prayers!

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  46. ceboo Avatar
    ceboo

    Hello Sylvie.
    I’m so sorry to read this. My heart goes out to you. But good for you for demanding to talk to the director of the clinic to get the information you needed.
    You obviously have guts and courage, which will be so important.
    I have no personal experience with breast cancer, but I’d like to tell you about two friends who have. Molly discovered she had cancer in both of her breasts when she was in her late ’20s. She was assertive about her treatment, and got two doctor’s opinions before deciding on the best course of action for her. She always had someone go with her to appointments who could take notes on what was said, because she felt that she couldn’t absorb everything herself. Molly is a Buddhist, and her spiritual practice became even more important to her. Today, some 15+ years later, she’s as active and beautiful as ever.
    Another friend, Sue, also had cancer in both breasts that had spread to the lymph nodes, and her prognosis wasn’t very good.
    She fought hard, and with such spirit and good humor–it was as if she was daring the cancer on. Her incredible life-force carried through, and she’s cancer-free after about 4 years.
    Each year, I take part in the Susan B. Komen race for the cure. The number of women–cancer survivors all-wearing their pink baseball hats is an inspiring sight to see.
    Wishing you all the best Sylvie, and saying a prayer for you.

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  47. Lilia Meredith Avatar
    Lilia Meredith

    Ohhh I dont know what to say. I know some friends that are breast cancer survivors and all I can say is that, they are positive and that is what has gotten them through everything. I am so amazed at these women! I can get you in contact with them.. it helps to know other women that are going through the same thing as you…… Please feel free to e-amil me and I will be checking on you my sweet friend! much hugs and prayers
    !-Lilia Meredith

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  48. Marcee Avatar
    Marcee

    Hi Sylvie,
    I’m so sorry to hear your news. I was diagnosed with breast cancer right after I turned 31. I am now 34 and doing better than ever. The traditional treatment for breast cancer is harsh, but I did it all. In my experience good sources of information are http://www.cancer.org and http://www.youngsurvival.org. The Young Survival Coalition in particular is helpful. It is informative without being scary and it is positive, but also a place where you can talk about your fears and say you’re having a bad day. If you have any questions please feel free to email me. I’ve been through biopsies, MRIs, mastectomy, chemo, radiation, reconstruction, the whole thing. It is a tough road, but you will make it. Take care of you, Marcee

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  49. jes Avatar

    Dearest Darling Sylvie,
    So much to say, but as I read all of the comments, it’s truly all been said.
    My heart goes out to you and my arms reach across the states to hug you.
    We have been blogging back and forth in a casual manner for a couple of years now, and I can truly say, from what I’ve seen of you, that you are a strong soul who doesn’t give up. You are beautiful and sweet, and you take matters into your own hands. You go for what you want. I’m sure you will tackle this situation in much of the same way you tackle everything.
    Just know that you are not alone. I am amazed at all of the links everyone has sent to you! I will be back to check some of them out, that way I will feel like I am keeping a”breast” of the situation as any good friend should!! LOL!
    ~Jes Berry
    xoxoxox

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