Lately I've been writing Sylvie BC, meaning Sylvie Beyond Cancer. Tomorrow, Wednesday the 28th, is my mastectomy surgery. It's after 9pm and I still don't have my bag packed…and I have to get up at 4:30am!!

The surgery waiting room at the Cancer Center, Stanford

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It's a strange world. Strange times. Strange and surreal feelings wash over me. I am suddenly at a loss for words. Keep me in your thoughts. My loving wishes, Sylvie

Marcel, outside of Stanford

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Marcel's photo of a sunflower at Stanford

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41 responses to “Beyond Cancer”

  1. Anna Spiro Avatar

    Wishing you all the very best Sylvie BC!!!
    XX
    Anna

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  2. Dionna Avatar
    Dionna

    Sylvie-
    I wish you the best tomorrow, and will be thinking of you a lot. You are such a brave woman, and I admire your ability to face this head on.
    I’ll pray for you tomorrow and each day forward.
    xoxooxo
    Dionna

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  3. Drew Avatar
    Drew

    I’ll be thinking of you…good luck Sylvia, we’re lucky you’re so strong.
    -Drew

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  4. Drew Avatar
    Drew

    Love,
    Drew (of course)

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  5. samantha Avatar

    sending all my good wishes and prayers

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  6. Selena Avatar

    Hugs to you Sylvie. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers for tomorrow.

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  7. decor8 Holly Avatar

    I’ll be thinking of you dear Sylvie, you are going to do great I know it, you have the ability to soar above this!
    xo
    Holly

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  8. aphrochic Avatar

    Dear Sylvie,
    You are in my thoughts and prayers. Know that you are in the hands of wonderful doctors, that your son and your family will be a source of strength, that all of us out here who you have touched with your blog are thinking about you. I pray that you will move forward from this surreal experience, and that the cancer will be fully removed from your body. Be blessed.
    Love,
    Jeanine/AphroChic

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  9. david Avatar
    david

    Sylvie….you are the soulful friend …meaning your true empathy has always come from your deep sensitivity….this another change..that’s all..miss you madly..david

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  10. sarah london Avatar

    holding your hand tightly from here in australia, stay strong! xx

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  11. Jane Avatar

    Prayers, good thoughts, love, wishes, peace, healing…all lifted up for you.
    xxxxx

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  12. barb blair/knack Avatar
    barb blair/knack

    Hey Sylvie I am praying for you today, for grace , strength and healing. You have been so kind and generous to me and my heart is touched with your pain during this time.

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  13. daisy cottage Avatar

    (((((Sylvie)))))
    Much love,
    Kim

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  14. chez shoes Avatar

    Hugs to you, Sylvie.

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  15. jessica Avatar

    Wishing you good luck. Prayers are with you. Only the best to you Sylvie.
    HUGS!!

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  16. Veronica TM Avatar

    good, positive, loving, kind energy to you sylvie!
    i will be thinking of you and marcel.
    un abrazo grande que se extiende mas alla de las distancias, querida amiga.

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  17. The Deco Detective Avatar

    Dear Sylvie,
    I would like to wish you good luck, even if I haven’t introduced myself before. It looks like a lot of people are thinking about you, which always makes one strong!
    Best wishes – be well!
    Kind regards,
    T

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  18. Gisela Avatar

    I’m sending my thoughts to you, dear Sylvie!

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  19. Alicia P. Avatar

    Very best of luck to you Sylvie. Love and prayers, alicia

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  20. corine Avatar

    Loving wishes right back at you!

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  21. maja Avatar

    you’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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  22. Aurora Avatar

    I’ve been thinking about you and miss you. I hope all goes well. I believe in the power of prayers and will be including you and R and M in mine.
    Strange and surreal times indeed. We just moved back in after being evacuated from the fire… it stopped 200 yards from our house.
    I’m sending you love and light my beautiful talented friend.
    Kat

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  23. victoria Avatar

    you and marcel and your husband are all in my thoughts and prayers. i wish you a very healthy and speedy recovery. xo, victoria

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  24. Esra Avatar
    Esra

    Dear Sylvie,
    I m from Turkey, Istanbul. I read your last post. I m not sad I am full with hope. I had same surgery when I was 24. My mom and my aunt died because of cancer but I didnt hate from cancer. I try to understand why it choose me and I found my special answers. I am 28 now. I found my love when I take the cemoteraphy(? sorry for my beginning English:)) )
    Believe to the life and listen him. Listen him What He Tried to say. Ask it to him and give permission to him to tell about real you to you…
    İt will be good. I feel like this. Dont afraid dont hate only believe.
    With love
    Esra

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  25. fiona Avatar
    fiona

    I am sending you my best wishes and good thoughts. I know it’s scary, but I know you will triumph.

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  26. fiona Avatar
    fiona

    BTW, I know it’s small consolation, but I have a friend who had double cancer (ovarian and uterine) at age 24, and she is fine now. Every doctor except one told her there was no hope, and she’s been alive and in remission for almost 10 years. Good luck!

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  27. Barb Avatar

    You are in my thoughts, Sylvie BC!

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  28. Cristina Avatar

    Best wishes to you! You are such a brave and loving person. I can’t fathom how scary and difficult this must be, but as another poster said, I know you will triumph. My thoughts are with you are your family.

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  29. Fiona Avatar

    Thinking of you, Sylvie. All the very, very best. xo

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  30. monica t Avatar
    monica t

    you are in my thoughts and prayers here in northern cal. so many you have touched are wishing you and your family strength, courage, and blessings.

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  31. Ceil Avatar
    Ceil

    Sylvie, God Bless you my friend. He knows how much you mean to me and so I pray heartily and joyfully for you. Sharing your experience like this is a real blessing for many others who are too fearful to speak about it. You are a voice for so many women. All of our words are prayers and supplications for your healing; mind, body and spirit as one. I think the post from Ezra speaks for many of us. God bless her. I’ll call and check on you. Let me know what I can do for you all. Ceil

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  32. Di Overton Avatar

    Thinking of you. Stay positive! Much love and good wishes
    Di

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  33. jungle dream pagoda Avatar

    Thinking of you with positivity!!!

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  34. Moodboard Avatar

    Sylvie, I’ll be thinking of you today and wishing you a swift recovery. I’m sending you an Angel named Karen to watch over you.

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  35. studio wellspring Avatar

    holding you tight with prayers of love, warmth, comfort, and healing, dear one.

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  36. colleen Avatar

    My prayers are with you, Sylvie BC.
    May you have a long and happy life ahead of you with minimal doctor visits.

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  37. acaligurl Avatar
    acaligurl

    hi sylvie, my thoughts & prayers are with you!
    kelly

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  38. Mar Avatar
    Mar

    All the love to you!
    mar

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  39. jes Avatar

    I’m glad you are home and feeling better!!! I see you’re playing on Flickr (thanks for the comment). I was stunned at how BIG Marcel looks!!!
    I love the iced tea spoons, and can’t wait to “alter” them
    xoxoxo

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  40. Mrs. Kwitty Avatar

    You are in my thoughts and, though I am here past your surgery, I pray that all went well, this will be the end of your cancer, and that your recovery goes quick and good. God’s Blessings.
    Karen

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